NOTHING ASS......

You always here the quote that "nice guys always finish last", in some cases, that quote isnt true, but for the majority of cases, its  the truest statement ever made. Over the years i have observed and listened to female friends that have shared experiences with me, and from what was given to me and what i took from it, is that a lot of females have a fascination for nothing ass niggas. Thats pretty strange to me, considering you hear a lot of women say that they need a "real" man, and have so many demands on what they would like in a man, but you never hear them list a nothing ass nigga in what they want, but yet and still thats who they are with.

I have 1 female friend that i speak to on the regular and she looks to me for advice on a lot of her relationships, im flattered that i am thought that highly of, but in my heart i know that once i give her the keys, she wont unlock that door, she is going to find the nearest bush and sling them shits right in the bushes. Yet and still, i listen to her, take in the information that she is giving and based on that i let her know what i feel from everything that she shared with me, she will will respond,  yeah you are so right, i understand and so on, but what does she do? Lets just say i usually get a call back saying that i was right and the cycle starts all over again...LoL

So what attracts females to nothing ass niggas? It has baffled me for a long time and i don't know if i will ever understand it, so i'm asking you all what it is. i will also give you signs to know that you are dealing with a nothing ass nigga, because some of you may not know that you are messing with one, so here we go.

If you have a child with a man, you both brought that child into this world, right? so there is know reason that you should be clothing, feeding and bathing a child and a nothing ass nigga. a man will go out and do whatever he has to do to support you and your child together, even if it means taking penintentary chances, that man will make sure that his household is taken care of.

If you are dating a dopeboy, that was selling drugs when you met him, and 4 years later he has been back and forth out of jail and continues to sell drugs, then you are dealing with a nothing ass nigga. they say that you should never knock a mans hustle, but i feel like after a while, going to jail and ducking police has to get old, its quite obvious that all he knows is the block, and the world is entirely to big to be restricted to a corner.

If you are repeatedly catching him doing dirt, such as cheating, then you are dealing with a nothing ass nigga. If he was a man then he would know how to come to you and let you know that he doesnt want to be with you anymore, instead of going out and fucking any and everybody, then coming home and laying in the bed with you. Some women are as dumb to know that he is messing around and still let him come home and spread their legs to him, are you fucking stupid? there isnt that much love in the world that would have me know that my girl is cheating and allow her to come home, lay in the bed with me and i slide my penis in her, HELL NO! diseases are spreaded everyday and i refuse to make myself vulnerable to them. If they are triflin enough to go out and cheat, instead of maning up and ending the relationship, then they are triflin enough to go raw in a chick and come home and go raw in you, remeber that. Oh there is no sense in being mad now that you left the doctor for your yearly check up (well some of you) and you find out that you have contacted an STI, God willing it be something that can be cured, you have no right to be mad at that man, because you knew he was fucking around and decided to continue to accept the lies and fake apologies, and you spread your legs, so get the fuck over it, hopefully that will open your eyes up.

I mean i can go on for days about this topic, but those are some of the main signs of a nothing ass nigga that i wanted you to be aware of. so ladies, I'm pleading with you to have respect for yourselves, know who you are laying with, recognize the signs of these dudes and move along with your life, because at some point and time it will be to late, either he brings you the gift that keeps giving (HIV/Aids) or he destroys  your credit score, or you end up locked in the penintentary because youre driving his car with his drugs in it that you were unaware of. So i ask you, whats the fascination with these NOTHING ASS NIGGAS? 

Relapse

relation to drug misuse, is resuming the use of a drug or a chemical substance after one or more periods of abstinence. What would the world be without relapse? Would everything function correctly? Would there be less drama? The world may never know, but relapsing can be a deadly thing. When you hear the word relapse, your thoughts of drugs may be, cocaine, heroin, acid, etc. there is much more that one can relapse from though... Take this ride with me One thing that I have noticed, is that I am a substance. Continuously I am used and abused, but I still pop back up on every corner. I have been talked about, ridiculed, and called everything but the child of God, but guess what? I'm not going ANYWHERE!!! If I was breakable, I would have been broken, so don't waste your time trying. I guess I'm a trend, first they talk about you, get tired of that and chill for a while, then they are right back at it, mouth going 100 miles an hour. That's why I consider myself a drug, you use me, try to kick the habit and realize you can't live without me and you come running back. It's pathetic, but the truth. My grandfather use to refer to those type of people as being FANS( Fool Ass Niggas) LoL... But straight up, you can't wake up and jump right on somebody d**k, did you have breakfast yet? Damn, at least get your nourishments up first... Smh When it comes to love, a person is bound to relapse every once in a while as well. Just ensure that whatever that your heart tells you to do is what will be beneficial to you and that person in the long run. You can be in love with a person and the feeling isn't mutual, or vise versa. You just have to make sure that whatever the situation maybe that you both agree to stay or move along, because through every situation it's just up to you and that person to battle through any and everything together. One person can't make a decision for the relationship, what good does holding your feelings to yourself? There is no closure in that at all, if you want to be done with someone, tell them. It's really that easy, people just make it hard. Love is a tricky situation though, there will be times you fall out of love, just to relapse and fall right back in love. They say that how most successful marriages operate anyway. You see these couples that have been together 50 and 60 years and it's a beautiful thing, but listen to those couples stories on marriage... Everything was ne'er just peaches and cream, you feel me? To sum everything up... DRUGS ARE BAD EMMMMKAY!!! ( Mr. Mackay voice)

GIBBERISH??!!

"I see your body lighting up in the moonlight
As a ghost story you jump in the moonlight
I wanna feel you in the dark when I do right
Do right right there, yeah
As a ghost story you jump in the morning,
I signal, I want that by all means
I signal you, and you got where I want that
Want that right there, right there"

The above choice of words, would be greeted with a side eye, or maybe even a thought to yourself, like," what the hell is this dude talking about?" Well talking that sounds like speech, but carries no actual meaning, is considered the be gibberish... Personally I believe that there is no such thing as gibberish, who am I to tell someone that what they have to say makes absolutely no sense? When people move their mouth, they're doing it for a reason, the reason maybe just to hear themselves speak, but there is some truth to every statement.

I Often find myself in deep thought and I usual vocalize what's on my mind, but everyone mind doesn't function the same. So do you be quiet because your inner most feelings have fall upon death ears? If I'm answering this question, I reply quickly with a fuck no! As long as I know my feelings are being expressed to the best of my abilities, my mind is clear. I feel that it takes a creative mind to understand the things I have to express at times. Why should I dumb myself down to accommodate you? Especially if I tell you what's on my mind and you don't go and try or even try to dig deep into what I say... So you don't want to smarten up, so I won't dumb down.

While I'm talking about dumbing down, if you read anything I have written, then you know there is always a moral to the story. This is the part that I will do, I will explain what I mean, of it's still considered gibberish, oh well, but I'm sure you won't think that in the end. When I use the phrase "dumb yourself down" I mean that in every facet of life... There are people that would love to wake up in the morning, turn on their television while getting dressed, and hear a scientist come over the TV exclaiming that earth has been found to revolve around them... O_o... We all know that's not happening though. Everyone is guilty of being selfish, everyone has done something in the selfish category, ok that's cool, but constant behavior showing that trait is horrible. It has nothing to do with being miserable, or anything, it is a mental condition and it affects many. If it's not about them, then it's Fuck it in their mind.

My advice is to steer clear of these people and allow yourself to be heard at anytime that you feel that you have something to say. Dream killers do exist, but if you never share those dreams, you have nothing to worry about. These are the ones that you must speak "gibberish" to. Them: what you trying to accomplish in the next year... Me: Sing them the love boat theme song... "Gibberish" has saved the day, it is my code talk, it's how I speak to those "uncreative minds" LoL... I know it's sad but true. I'm sure when some read this, they want notice the different forms of literature that occurred in this simple blog, it will make no sense to them, their mind will start racing, what is he talking bout? Somebody come read this and see what he saying... Somebody please tell me... Is he talking crazy? Is it some drama in here... DIES!!! It works Everytime... Gibberish is the leading death amongst nosey, close minded people...

ANYONE UP FOR A GAME OF SCRABBLE?

*Hasbro manufactures and owns the Scrabble trademark*


The board game Scrabble, is a game that most would pass on playing if you asked them to. Scrabble is a very intense game that requires a lot of thinking, and requires great vocabulary skills, if this describes you, then i would encourage you to play this board game. On the other hand most of us would rather play a board game that doesnt require much thinking and is constant fun, its easy to win and everyone loves to win, right? Know it or not, we all play Scrabble more than we really realize. The scrabble instructions are as follows, Two to four players play in any game of Scrabble. The object of Scrabble is to score more points than one's opponent. A player collects points by placing words on the game board. Each letter has a different point value, so the strategy becomes to play words with high scoring letter combination's. Sounds like an relationship, right?

OK, lets look at our pieces, we have the following letters, L,I,S,T,E,N... oh that was spelled out for us already. LISTEN, its one of those things that are totally overlooked in an relationship. An argument can change into an agreement within minutes if we learned to listen to our mate. Nothing in the world is resolved by mouths running without someone listening and hearing the other out. I understand that we all want to be heard and want to get our point across, you can do that, but its only right that you also sit and listen to your mate.  know what makes them tick, know how to avoid confrontation, create your own love language. Love Language is not spoken, it is DONE. For instance, you may get up later than your mate to go to work, they have to be up by 7 and you don't have to be up until 10, but every morning you wake up and cook your mate breakfast and orange juice, THAT'S LOVE LANGUAGE!! It's unspoken, but you know that you are loved from that simple act of affection, it works wonders.

When you stop listening to your mate thats when everything goes bad, and the most petty argument can blow up to be everything in the world. You both start arguing, now it turns into a screaming match, then it goes into trying to get the upper hand in the argument and get the last word. Refer back to the instructions of Scrabble. "The object of Scrabble is to score more points than one's opponent. A player collects points by placing words on the game board. Each letter has a different point value, so the strategy becomes to play words with high scoring letter combination's." Can you see where i'm coming from? You both are arguing back and forth, trying to score points, usually at the end of a game the person with the highest score wins, but at the end of an petty argument, is there really a winner? I would answer No, for the simple fact you just exhausted all that time and energy into an argument, and at the end, of course youre going to feel you won, but where is the proof? Don't worry i'll wait.... There is none, because there was no winner, you both are losers. Why waste this blessing of Life with arguing over nothing. A simple conversation with courtesy can go a long way, it's also more healthier, physically, mentally and emotionally.

Relationships are hard, that's a known fact. You place to people together, that may be totally different but Love takes over and there's no running from that. It's so easy to fall in Love but it is one of the hardest things to fall out of. Keep that in mind when those silly arguments come around. I know that this is not the key to all relationships, because there are numerous things that can occur within a relationship, but i guarantee that listening will get rid of those petty arguments. Just remember those game pieces and you will be OK, otherwise you will receive different letters...F,A,I,L,U,R,E. That's right FAILURE!

RIDING ON THE TROLLEY?

I know that you all are probably scratching your head trying to figure out what the title and this picture is all about, well don't worry, i will turn the lights on in just a few seconds. Fred Rogers, known to the world as just plain Mr. Rogers, hosted a show televised on the PBS Network. Originally aired from February 19, 1968 - August 31, 2001 (currently airs in reruns), that is an amazing 33 1/2 years on the air, but anyway, Mr. Rogers would walk through the door singing his famous song titled "Won't you be my neighbor", he would walk to the closet, take off his blazer and change into a sweater. From there Mr. Rogers would proceed to his little couch, change his shoes, all while singing his theme song.(Amazing Right?)

After Mr. Rogers was done talking for a while, he would bring out one of his favorite toys which was an trolley train. Mr. Rogers would hold a conversation with trolley and trolley would respond by blow his horn and pipes, and Mr. Rogers understood what trolley was saying. Well after their brief conversation trolley would be off on a magical journey to the "LAND OF MAKE BELIEVE." The "LAND OF MAKE BELIEVE", was an magical place where things would happen that weren't real, and you cook imagine it to be as you wanted it to be, which the name of the place lets you know.

It seems to me that while watching this prestigious television show and be entertained by the magical world as children, a lot of people to that world and ran with it. To back this statement up, just log into your favorite social network and I promise you will find that one person with a status saying the following, " I'm out here hustling, getting money, and it's money over (excuse me) Bitches all day everyday." You may be shocked by reading that status for the simple fact this person just borrowed 10 dollars from you 5 minutes ago, but the post was put up over 45 minutes ago...hmmm.... you also may sit back and think to yourself like, does this person realize that i know them, that we are FB friends or even that i know that he is unemployed? Believe me they know, that you know, like they know and a lot of other people know, that they are LYING!! Why would you waste your time and energy to post something that is 100% false?

The things that are lied about aren't even things to be proud of to even lie about, you popping bottles? I'm sitting next to you homie, you sipping on a can of Brisk. Seriously the lies are getting out of control, i am a firm believer and executing things to the best of your abilities, but lying is not something that mindset should be executed on. If you must continue to Lie, at least lie about something positive, like " I finally made it, I'm a college graduate?", or " I just sat down and read this great book?" I mean lying isn't cool but i would rather see a positive lying status than a flat out, bald faced lie.

If we could all learn to be comfortable in our own skin, the world would be a better place. You don't have to pump fake about anything, be yourself, you can lie to others, but you can't lie to yourself. Be happy with the blessing of  life, be happy with the blessings God has sent to you. If you are a window washer, then be the best damn window washer in the world, if you must go door to door to shovel snow, make sure you bring salt for the ice. Just be the best at whatever your life consist of, if you're not the best then you find out who is and you bust your ass until that person doesn't exist anymore. Read these words and use them for exactly what they are and that the truth, you can accept it, or run away from it. If you choose to run away from it, then the Trolley has reached your stop.... ALL ABOARD!!! TOOT! TOOT!!

ALL PRAISES TO THE ALMIGHTY....IGNORANCE?

                

           IGNORANCE: THE LACK OF KNOWLEDGE OR EDUCATION

Oh please don't runaway now. Kick off your shoes, lay back, relax and allow me to speak on some of our biggest flaws. now before i get started, i am not perfect ( i know its hard to believe...LoL) nor do i claim to be, but i will say that i do take the time to educate myself and take the initiative to learn on my own.

Growing up, my mom would always tell me "Charles, you must always have some umph about yourself." let me explain what my mother meant when she said that, she was basically telling me, " Charles, you must always give a FUCK about yourself, and always look to make yourself better." those words have stuck with me from my teenage years to my adult life, yes i have had bumps in the road and there have been plenty obstacles on my course, but after a while even a fool can realize that the laughter has stopped and the embarrassment kicks in, do you hear me? I said the EMBARRASSMENT kicks in, oh no don't stray away from me now.

Embarrassment is defined as, the shame you feel when your inadequacy or guilt is made public. Examples are as follows, don't y@ll hate it wen sumbody wr!tes 2 u lyke th!s? or maybe this for example, "mafuckas is straight blowing me, ima fuck around and slap a bitch, but on another note God is so good to me." I'm pretty sure if you are connected to any social network then you have encountered "THAT GUY", I swear to God i can't make these things up if i tried to, it's so sad that i witness this far to often. I'm guilty of keeping up with trends and im always down to keep that trend going, but is IGNORANCE a trend? It would appear to be that way, and when those type of trends come around, i refuse to follow them. Honestly I'm offended by those type of occurrences, how dare you insult my intelligence with that foolishness on my screen? I have expressed my opinion to many that i find writing in those ways, and their response is "well that's just how i talk', does that make it right? so you just ok with being ignorant? I tell you that it is a crying shame.

We have the opportunity to make ourselves better, to be anything that we want to be and yet we refuse to accept the challenge and allow our ancestors to smile, knowing that they didn't sacrifice their lives for no reason. We rather go through life, uneducated, unemployed, and unappreciative, which is a deadly combination to possess. We have the opportunity to read, write, and go to school to better ourselves, whereas our ancestors were denied an education, were beaten and lynched for even attempting to read. So when you succumb to Ignorance you are spitting in your ancestors face, you know the ones that fought so hard, the ones that gave their lives for you, and the ones that without them THERE WOULD BE NO YOU!!!

I challenge you all to educate yourselves, if you are already doing that, keep it up. There is so much in life to be grateful for, there are a lot of things in life that are going to just piss you off, but you know what you don't have to be here! Since you are here, let's use our blessing wisely and educate ourselves, educate our children, so one day they can educate their children. The world does not evolve around anyone, no one owes you anything, but you owe yourself EVERYTHING!

 

                                             LOOK IN ANY MIRROR, THE IMAGE IS THE SAME

"FOOLS GOLD"

Over and over again I find myself becoming irritated while browsing my news feed on Facebook, or even my timeline on Twitter, for the simple fact I am tired of reading statuses like this... " don't worry about what's going on over here, WE GOOD, can't you hoes see that he using y'all, he know where home at, LoL @ you clowns, who mad? Bitch you." Really? Did you really just point out that he was using her? So what do you think is going on with you and him then? I find myself doing something that I would recommend a lot of people to start doing, and that's READING what I typed into that box, analyzing it, and editing what I wrote before I press that share button. Once that share button is pressed, guess what? You are now the new prey for another piece of fools gold. I find myself puzzled about those type of statuses all the time, so I figured that I would help you out and realize what's happening to you from a males perspective, instead of allowing you to continue to roam around in Oz on your own.

First and foremost, social networks are not the place to air out your relationship drama, I'm not going to lie, I sit back and laugh sometimes at the things I read, but once I sit down it let the ignorant and naive status sink into my head, all I can do is hang my head in shame. The reason I shake my head is because when I think back in history to Harriet Tubman, Rosa Parks, Madame C.J. Walker and Maya Angelou, those were strong BLACK WOMEN, who stood on their own and made the decision to revolutionize African American history. So when I see a young black woman destroying herself and being stepped on, it bothers me, because I can admit that BLACK WOMEN are the strongest creatures in the universe. So for a young black woman to sell herself short in life and settle to be treated like nothing is a slap in the face to those STRONG BLACK WOMEN who paved the way for you.

"THAT'S MY WIFEY" or "I'M WIFEY" is an expression that is used on a regular basis within African American relationships, but let me break something down to you ladies, don't embrace that title as "wifey" because it's not as sacred as you believe. When a man introduces you ashis "wife" then embrace that title. Let me give a male conversation I'm going to use the names Joe and Fred as examples.

Joe: you still trying to hit the club tonight
Fred: hell yeah! We got to fall through there, cause I know it's go be a lot of bad chicks ready to get it.
Joe: aight that's what's up, you dressed already? If so I'm bout to scoop you up
Fred: yeah I'm ready, ay you got some condoms in case something jump off tonight
Joe: yeah I got a pack in the glove box
Fred: aight bet, you can come scoop me, but let me hit the wifey up real quick, then we can bounce.
*pause*
what I'm getting at is that usually if a man refers to you as wifey, you're basically his main girl. Yes he loves you, he might even shed a few tears if you guys broke up, but at the end of the day, he is going to do whatever he wants, with who he wants, however he wants, then come home and lay with you...Yikes! One thing you have to realize is a man will tell you anything you want to know by his conversation and how he introduces you. Maybe some women like those type of relationships and if so, then this is not for you, but for the ones that want more out an relationship than an STD, heartbreak, or drama over someone you thought was only yours, listen to your mates introduction of you and you will figure out what the relationship is before it even begins.

I can tell you these things, because I was that guy, I have played that role in my life, I can admit that, but I grew up and realized two things, one is God don't like ugly, I don't believe in Karma, but I do believe in the wrath of God and he will get his point across to you, secondly I realized that one day I will maybe have a daughter and I wouldn't want her treated the way that I was treating women, nor would I want my mom treated bad.

Gold is a very prized possession,for instance, if you had on your gold chain and you mistakenly broke it, you would be upset right? Well why not treat yourself like a piece of Gold? Treat your heart like a piece of Gold, because when you chase behind a fool, your gold becomes...

"FOOLS GOLD."