NOTHING ASS......

You always here the quote that "nice guys always finish last", in some cases, that quote isnt true, but for the majority of cases, its  the truest statement ever made. Over the years i have observed and listened to female friends that have shared experiences with me, and from what was given to me and what i took from it, is that a lot of females have a fascination for nothing ass niggas. Thats pretty strange to me, considering you hear a lot of women say that they need a "real" man, and have so many demands on what they would like in a man, but you never hear them list a nothing ass nigga in what they want, but yet and still thats who they are with.

I have 1 female friend that i speak to on the regular and she looks to me for advice on a lot of her relationships, im flattered that i am thought that highly of, but in my heart i know that once i give her the keys, she wont unlock that door, she is going to find the nearest bush and sling them shits right in the bushes. Yet and still, i listen to her, take in the information that she is giving and based on that i let her know what i feel from everything that she shared with me, she will will respond,  yeah you are so right, i understand and so on, but what does she do? Lets just say i usually get a call back saying that i was right and the cycle starts all over again...LoL

So what attracts females to nothing ass niggas? It has baffled me for a long time and i don't know if i will ever understand it, so i'm asking you all what it is. i will also give you signs to know that you are dealing with a nothing ass nigga, because some of you may not know that you are messing with one, so here we go.

If you have a child with a man, you both brought that child into this world, right? so there is know reason that you should be clothing, feeding and bathing a child and a nothing ass nigga. a man will go out and do whatever he has to do to support you and your child together, even if it means taking penintentary chances, that man will make sure that his household is taken care of.

If you are dating a dopeboy, that was selling drugs when you met him, and 4 years later he has been back and forth out of jail and continues to sell drugs, then you are dealing with a nothing ass nigga. they say that you should never knock a mans hustle, but i feel like after a while, going to jail and ducking police has to get old, its quite obvious that all he knows is the block, and the world is entirely to big to be restricted to a corner.

If you are repeatedly catching him doing dirt, such as cheating, then you are dealing with a nothing ass nigga. If he was a man then he would know how to come to you and let you know that he doesnt want to be with you anymore, instead of going out and fucking any and everybody, then coming home and laying in the bed with you. Some women are as dumb to know that he is messing around and still let him come home and spread their legs to him, are you fucking stupid? there isnt that much love in the world that would have me know that my girl is cheating and allow her to come home, lay in the bed with me and i slide my penis in her, HELL NO! diseases are spreaded everyday and i refuse to make myself vulnerable to them. If they are triflin enough to go out and cheat, instead of maning up and ending the relationship, then they are triflin enough to go raw in a chick and come home and go raw in you, remeber that. Oh there is no sense in being mad now that you left the doctor for your yearly check up (well some of you) and you find out that you have contacted an STI, God willing it be something that can be cured, you have no right to be mad at that man, because you knew he was fucking around and decided to continue to accept the lies and fake apologies, and you spread your legs, so get the fuck over it, hopefully that will open your eyes up.

I mean i can go on for days about this topic, but those are some of the main signs of a nothing ass nigga that i wanted you to be aware of. so ladies, I'm pleading with you to have respect for yourselves, know who you are laying with, recognize the signs of these dudes and move along with your life, because at some point and time it will be to late, either he brings you the gift that keeps giving (HIV/Aids) or he destroys  your credit score, or you end up locked in the penintentary because youre driving his car with his drugs in it that you were unaware of. So i ask you, whats the fascination with these NOTHING ASS NIGGAS? 

Relapse

relation to drug misuse, is resuming the use of a drug or a chemical substance after one or more periods of abstinence. What would the world be without relapse? Would everything function correctly? Would there be less drama? The world may never know, but relapsing can be a deadly thing. When you hear the word relapse, your thoughts of drugs may be, cocaine, heroin, acid, etc. there is much more that one can relapse from though... Take this ride with me One thing that I have noticed, is that I am a substance. Continuously I am used and abused, but I still pop back up on every corner. I have been talked about, ridiculed, and called everything but the child of God, but guess what? I'm not going ANYWHERE!!! If I was breakable, I would have been broken, so don't waste your time trying. I guess I'm a trend, first they talk about you, get tired of that and chill for a while, then they are right back at it, mouth going 100 miles an hour. That's why I consider myself a drug, you use me, try to kick the habit and realize you can't live without me and you come running back. It's pathetic, but the truth. My grandfather use to refer to those type of people as being FANS( Fool Ass Niggas) LoL... But straight up, you can't wake up and jump right on somebody d**k, did you have breakfast yet? Damn, at least get your nourishments up first... Smh When it comes to love, a person is bound to relapse every once in a while as well. Just ensure that whatever that your heart tells you to do is what will be beneficial to you and that person in the long run. You can be in love with a person and the feeling isn't mutual, or vise versa. You just have to make sure that whatever the situation maybe that you both agree to stay or move along, because through every situation it's just up to you and that person to battle through any and everything together. One person can't make a decision for the relationship, what good does holding your feelings to yourself? There is no closure in that at all, if you want to be done with someone, tell them. It's really that easy, people just make it hard. Love is a tricky situation though, there will be times you fall out of love, just to relapse and fall right back in love. They say that how most successful marriages operate anyway. You see these couples that have been together 50 and 60 years and it's a beautiful thing, but listen to those couples stories on marriage... Everything was ne'er just peaches and cream, you feel me? To sum everything up... DRUGS ARE BAD EMMMMKAY!!! ( Mr. Mackay voice)

GIBBERISH??!!

"I see your body lighting up in the moonlight
As a ghost story you jump in the moonlight
I wanna feel you in the dark when I do right
Do right right there, yeah
As a ghost story you jump in the morning,
I signal, I want that by all means
I signal you, and you got where I want that
Want that right there, right there"

The above choice of words, would be greeted with a side eye, or maybe even a thought to yourself, like," what the hell is this dude talking about?" Well talking that sounds like speech, but carries no actual meaning, is considered the be gibberish... Personally I believe that there is no such thing as gibberish, who am I to tell someone that what they have to say makes absolutely no sense? When people move their mouth, they're doing it for a reason, the reason maybe just to hear themselves speak, but there is some truth to every statement.

I Often find myself in deep thought and I usual vocalize what's on my mind, but everyone mind doesn't function the same. So do you be quiet because your inner most feelings have fall upon death ears? If I'm answering this question, I reply quickly with a fuck no! As long as I know my feelings are being expressed to the best of my abilities, my mind is clear. I feel that it takes a creative mind to understand the things I have to express at times. Why should I dumb myself down to accommodate you? Especially if I tell you what's on my mind and you don't go and try or even try to dig deep into what I say... So you don't want to smarten up, so I won't dumb down.

While I'm talking about dumbing down, if you read anything I have written, then you know there is always a moral to the story. This is the part that I will do, I will explain what I mean, of it's still considered gibberish, oh well, but I'm sure you won't think that in the end. When I use the phrase "dumb yourself down" I mean that in every facet of life... There are people that would love to wake up in the morning, turn on their television while getting dressed, and hear a scientist come over the TV exclaiming that earth has been found to revolve around them... O_o... We all know that's not happening though. Everyone is guilty of being selfish, everyone has done something in the selfish category, ok that's cool, but constant behavior showing that trait is horrible. It has nothing to do with being miserable, or anything, it is a mental condition and it affects many. If it's not about them, then it's Fuck it in their mind.

My advice is to steer clear of these people and allow yourself to be heard at anytime that you feel that you have something to say. Dream killers do exist, but if you never share those dreams, you have nothing to worry about. These are the ones that you must speak "gibberish" to. Them: what you trying to accomplish in the next year... Me: Sing them the love boat theme song... "Gibberish" has saved the day, it is my code talk, it's how I speak to those "uncreative minds" LoL... I know it's sad but true. I'm sure when some read this, they want notice the different forms of literature that occurred in this simple blog, it will make no sense to them, their mind will start racing, what is he talking bout? Somebody come read this and see what he saying... Somebody please tell me... Is he talking crazy? Is it some drama in here... DIES!!! It works Everytime... Gibberish is the leading death amongst nosey, close minded people...